Perfection Or…??

Over The last few months I have been meditating on what a definition of perfection means. I think there are a variety of ways to look at it. Often people think of perfection as not making a mistake. While that is one definition, I’d like to take us to a biblical definition. The biblical definition of perfection Is not about, not making a mistake but more about becoming more like Jesus. The gospel of Matthew talks about this. It says this in Matthew 5:48: “Be perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect.”

This scripture is encouraging us to follow the example of Jesus. One way that we do that is by living out the fruits of the Spit. Galatians 5:22-23 says this: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, & self-control.” Are the fruits of the spirit present and active in your life? Are you living your life in such a way that you are desiring to be transformed & live like Jesus?

Many blessings,


An Unexpected Delay

On my way back from a recent trip I had an experience where I had to sit in traffic go 2 hours. I was traveling back home from relatives who live in a beautiful area of Long Island New York. The only downfall is that the first hour of the drive back involves traveling on major bridges that are in close proximity to New York City. I’ve driven this trip many times over the last 20 years and I’ve been a passenger for 20 years prior to that.

Due to the 2 hour delay I chose to take an unexpected detour for the rest of the trip. Otherwise, there would’ve been an additional hour added to my trip. I did not plan on being delayed 2 extra hours in NY.

I have noticed that there are times in my life that I am delayed or have to take and I unexpected detour. Sometimes these detours take me to places that God meant for me to be anyway.

Proverbs 20:24 says this: “A person’s steps are directed by the Lord. How can anyone understand his own way.” Often the ways and paths God directs us to take don’t make sense. In these situations we must choose to trust Him.

Do you trust Him? Does the direction your life is taking make sense?

Continuing to seek Him,


Who’s your GPS?

Well it has definitely been a while since I last blogged. Lately I’ve been reflecting on what it means to have a GPS. In case you didn’t now GPS stands for global positioning system. Most people in today’s world put their trust in a GPS to get them places because 95% of the time it doesn’t fail. A few weeks ago as I was traveling back home from a friend’s my GPS told me to go off the main road due to heavy traffic, possibly due to road construction. After reviewing the route, I decided to follow it. Eventually the route took me to the dirt road pictured above. At first I thought nothing of it & I kept passing other cars so it seemed like the way to go. After several windy roads I ended back on the main road and shortly after while talking to a friend she said, “you put your trust in your GPS.” I said, “Actually I put my trust in God.” That’s where my desire is, to put my trust in God. He is my GPS. Unfortunately I don’t always put my full trust in Him. But when I do, I find out that He always leads me in a right & good direction. This truth is included in Proverbs 3:5-6 which says: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding in all your ways acknowledge Him & he will make your paths straight.” Sometimes those paths that God leads us on don’t feel straight. Keep following & keep trusting & God will take you to where He wants you to go. Enjoy the journey & trust in Him….


Intensity & Passion

A couple of weeks ago I was at a friends house and I had the opportunity to watch my first World Cup soccer game. It was so easy for me to get excited and passionate as I watched it. This same excitement, passion, & intensity seems to erupt inside of me when I’m watching a football game.

All of this excitement & passion made me think and meditate on whether or not I have the same invigorating feeling about Jesus and spreading the gospel to all I meet. This also reminds me of what it says in Romans 1:16: “For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it brings the power of God that brings salvation to everyone who believes.”

What about you? Do you have the same passion for Jesus as you do for other areas in your life? Jesus lasts forever. All other passions are temporary.

Continuing to seek Jesus daily,


Running on Fumes??

Several years ago, I was an associate pastor in a small town. I would often stop at one local gas station or another but tended to be a regular at the Exxon station. Several weeks went by and I had not gone to that station and the attendant behind the counter proceeded to ask me this question: where have you been? Are you running on fumes? He was referring to my car since I hadn’t gotten gas there in sometime.

I’m thinking that there are times that God can ask us the same question. There are seasons in our lives when we put God on the back burner and do spend time with Him. Without time in God’s presence it can feel like we are running on fumes. Psalm 46:10 says: “Be still & know that I am God.” It is important to sit in God’s presence & surrender our lives to Him.

How full is your spiritual gas tank? Are you running on fumes?

Seeking to become more like Jesus,


Who’s weight is it?

The picture above symbolizes much of what I’ve been reflecting on the past few days. In case you wondered, I did not take this picture but found it online. It symbolizes that we as humans can often carry the weight of the world on our shoulders and that is unnecessary weight.

What is “the weight of the world” anyway? I suppose that depends on who is carrying it. Some of us carry the weight of financial issues, conflicts in relationships if any kind, internal conflicts, work issues, or just the unknowns of life. These weights are often referred to as worries. Worrying usually gets us nowhere except to a place of fear and anxiety.

Corrie Ten Boom said this about worrying: “Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.” God’s desire for us does not include worrying. He makes that clear in scripture. Matthew 6:34 says: “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble on its own.”

God does not intend for us to carry the weight of this world, the weight of our lives, or the weights in the lives of those around us. God had this to say about burdens in Matthew 11:28-30 says: “Come to me all you who are weary & burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me for I am gentle & humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. My yoke is easy and my burden is light.” It is only in clinging to our relationship with Jesus that our burdens become light. Clinging to anything else will make our burdens heavy. The choice is yours….

Continuously desiring to become more like Him,


No Words

For several weeks I have spent time thinking about a blog that I think it is now time to write. Sometimes it’s hard to put into words the deep, deep feelings we experience in our hearts. And that is where the title of this blog comes from. These two pictures above it here in my Facebook memories every so often. One is of my cousins and I at our great aunt and uncle’s. The other is of my cousin, her husband, & daughter just a few weeks prior to her leaving this world and going into heaven. I have no words when I think of these pictures and these memories. Opportunities to visit with cousins and family are so important. I had no words when I left her daughters second birthday party about a month ago. A part of me expected her to be there somewhere at that party. I miss her dearly and will always treasure the visit I had those few weeks before her passing. I had the opportunity to talk to her about her faith in a way that I hadn’t before. I have no words when I think of her.

There was a time in Jesus’ life and ministry when he had no words. It was the death of Lazarus. John 11:35 says: “Jesus wept.” Jesus experienced all of the emotions that we experience and sometimes these emotions led him to a place of having no words.

Are there times in your life when you have no words? I’d love to hear about them….